U2713H, X-rite, how to calibrate in custom mode?

I have: U2713h (rev. a07, dp 1.2 in OSD menu). Nvidia quadro 400 (dp-mini dp connection). X-rite I1 display pro + Dell calibration solution. windows 8.1. I work with PS and LR. 

I want to calibrate D65. gamma 2.2. 120 cd/m. 

I must choose x y and I don't know how...

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Another question: How can I check that Dell calibration solution use LUT3D? After calibration I see only that .icm profile was changed and in OSD menu CAL1 or CAL2 presets was applied.

PS: Sorry for my English)